Of course I didn't forget. I also didn't forget that BoT and the Smoker family were allies - which means, in essence, that you just admitted to attacking a Smoker ally. Our major allies were also listed in our tribe's public profile, too.
In addition, you never responded to my original request for you to stop , which means that I couldn't know your intentions towards me. Without knowing your intentions, how could it be argued that I joined Smoker in order to protect myself from you? I'm not a mind reader, after all.
In addition, you took no action from that initial scouting raid until after I had joined Smoke1. In essence, that means that you did nothing at all for six days afterward. I frankly don't see how a single scouting raid can be used as justification for someone being a refugee, especially considering how much of a delay there was afterward. If I were truly "running scared" from your scouting raid and looking for a safe haven, don't you think I would have joined another tribe much sooner than that?
In other words, there's no ground to stand on for calling me a refugee. You scouted me once while I was in a tribe allied to the Smoker family, took no action for almost a week, and then only started taking action once I had actually joined Smoke1. In addition, you used a message out of context to "justify" your continued attacks on me, despite the fact that you didn't even touch me while I was not in a tribe.
So, yeah.