I totally know what you mean. We had this kid come to our school once, and he wanted to join our group, but I didn't like him so he wasn't allowed every day people would be all like "Aww man let him in" But I stood my damn ground and wouldn't let that foolish wanna be in. Finally this kid came up to me and was like "Yo can I join you" But I was like No screw off, go away. But I knew this couldn't last forever, then one day I came back from being sick once, and this kid was like totally in our group. And everyone was like dude sorry man he kinda just got in. I was all like What evs but deep down it hurt. Thinking about it now, I should have just stabbed the kid in the temple.