Still less than most tribes by all means.
I'm not judging you in RL, I'm judging you from what I've seen and know of you in-game.
actually on w20 thats not really much less than most tribes
theres a member cap of 100+the worlds still fairly new so other than the mass-recruiters that go up to the member cap most tribes have like maybe 50-60 members
and i suppose your partly right
this is a war game and i dont like being in a tribe where a bunch of the tribe doesnt know what they are doing
but that hardly makes me a "sociopath",and if i ever found a tribe with 100+ members where the members were all competent chances are id stay in it
just as a side note:
i never really took spam(bored) seriously,i mostly stayed because that was back before i found skype and when i was less involved on the world forums than i am now so i needed active tribe forums
which is most of the reason i stayed as long as i did really
that+i was giving the tribe a chance
i tried to make it work but i probably would have left eventually just for the reason i posted above that i dont like being in tribes where a bunch of the tribe doesnt know what they are doing
as it was though i ended up leaving when i noticed how much of an ass certain members and leaders were