I know this is a late response , I didn't hear about it right away and then I didn't even know it was in the externals .
I didn't even know he was on meds or had a mental illness and that makes me sad as well because I live with such a person and understand it well.
What makes it worse is when we argue or fight with each other over such a silly game we don't stop to realize if that player/person is suffering from something . I never had a bad fight with Ben , but there was a time he Co for me in W 80 , but I threw him off my account because I wasn't sure if I trusted him or not . Then one time after that he tried to be on my friends list , but I declined because I thought he was going to give the enemy my online status .
We just never know when the end of someone will come , therefore it's best to try to always keep that in mind and don't leave grudges behind , we just feel awful not ever being able to apologize for them.