Yeah I am a leader in one of the mentioned sister tribes (ACE2 if you are too lazy to look) and I got to say never felt so scared. We are really only sister tribes in name in my opinion. Feels painful to be looked on as pray to the experienced player...
I have a question for you, as most really good tribes have a private IRC, do you? If so, how many people are on usually?
Do you have an external forum? Are all your members registered on it?
And finally, do your members have good contact between tribes, if an ACE2 member is next to a ACE member do they defiently have a convo going?
Do you have an yellow dots in any of your tribes?
The answers to these questions prove what is wrong with family tribes.