Your big mistake was nothing to do with a stronghold nuke. You all should have engaged when Toxic vs Fire was a thing. Also, you all should have had cat nukes ready to go for breaking uni levels.
Not having a uni is a big issue really. you all could have had a Uni but let smaller, weak tribes have a uni. Relying on us to build the uni and then noble it is a terrible strategy.
The ship sailed for any other tribe to compete with toxic when Fire started to collapse and Order stood around and did nothing. That NAP served you no benifit at that time.
Also, you all could have split the toxic cluster in half increasing the surface area of the front. However, you targeted dense areas of the cluster. The K 45/46 line would have been an ideal spot to try and attack.
I guess it is hard when you have low compliance from members, but thats when you internal them and go with 15 active accounts instead of 30 with dead weight.
You, however, did a great job in my opinion with order overall. If this was FARMVILLE