Wow... I am sorry, but maybe you need to take a step back from the game a bit if your actually going to throw doubt on Tatisan in anyway. I find this post plain distasteful and unnecessary.
I must disagree that Gicusan's statement was tasteless. He is making a valid point by offering his condolences on the condition that it is, in fact, true. His statement was not intended to discredit, nor offend.
It is a common act on this game to make up stories either to get out of social and in-game circumstances, or as a prank; one that I've seen a few times already. If I am correct, there was even a time on World 3 when a person allegedly faked "her" own death, though there was some solid evidence to disprove it was true.
Therefore, I must once more state that if a person is claiming such horrendous things, and are in fact leaving the game, either for good or for an extensive amount of time, it is my thought that they deserve the benefit of the doubt. Otherwise, I would share Gicu's approach.