You think that's a secret? I told many people to abandon TBS and try to go to LIFE, including at least two people who went to @Night: Harvey Suits Spector and Blisteringly. Then there's also the fact that, yes, I am now located around LIFE, so it doesn't take a genius to realise that. As for why I haven't joined yet, that's more a case of me holding on to my pride, even though I used to be one of the largest players, which I am no longer, and to me it'd be weird if someone my size joined them, so, I'd rather grow a bit before that.
As for being friendlier to @Night, I've been friendly where friendliness has been due, for example when I last talked to Gooby, I'm not the type of person who hold grudges. You can see this type of behaviour from me if you find the thread about a war in w47, which was when I was a teen. In defeat, I acknowledged the weaknesses of my tribe and congratulated my foes for a war well fought. This scenario of be being friendly to @Night isn't me being friendly with exterior motives, it's just how I am.